{"id":363,"date":"2007-12-11T09:54:10","date_gmt":"2007-12-10T23:54:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.counsellingconnection.com\/index.php\/2007\/12\/11\/resilience\/"},"modified":"2016-04-21T15:10:14","modified_gmt":"2016-04-21T05:10:14","slug":"resilience","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.counsellingconnection.com\/index.php\/2007\/12\/11\/resilience\/","title":{"rendered":"Parenting a Problem Adolescent: Resilience"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tunmore (cited in Regel &amp; Roberts, 2002, 73) outlined various mental health promoting factors (based on evidence) that are relevant to adolescent kids and to parents alike to reflect upon. They include:<\/p>\n<p><strong>Individual<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Self-esteem, sociability and autonomy<\/li>\n<li>Social support systems that encourage personal effort and coping<\/li>\n<li>Good communication skills<\/li>\n<li>A sense of humour<\/li>\n<li>Religious faith<\/li>\n<li>The capacity to reflect<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><strong>Family (Group)<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Family compassion, warmth and absence of parental discord<\/li>\n<li>At least one good parent-child relationship<\/li>\n<li>Affection<\/li>\n<li>Appropriate and consistent discipline<\/li>\n<li>Family support for education<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><strong>Environment<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>A wider support network within the community<\/li>\n<li>Good housing<\/li>\n<li>A high standard of living<\/li>\n<li>A range of positive sport and leisure activities<\/li>\n<li>A high morale school offering a safe and disciplined environment with strong academic and non-academic opportunities<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Whilst there are some important factors here, you need to have a bit of caution in places, because for example a high morale school is clearly a value-laden assumption. 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