{"id":2300,"date":"2014-04-24T10:07:50","date_gmt":"2014-04-24T00:07:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.counsellingconnection.com\/?p=2300"},"modified":"2016-05-09T16:20:32","modified_gmt":"2016-05-09T06:20:32","slug":"coping-with-bad-memories","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.counsellingconnection.com\/index.php\/2014\/04\/24\/coping-with-bad-memories\/","title":{"rendered":"Coping with Bad Memories"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Dr Jeremy Dean, a psychologist and author of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.spring.org.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\">PsyBlog<\/a>, recently wrote a blog post exploring a new technique that holds promise for those experiencing disturbing emotional flashbacks. The post offers insightful ideas &mdash; particularly for those working with trauma and grief. Here&rsquo;s an abstract:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>A better way to deal with recurring negative memories is to focus on the context and not the emotion, according to a new study published in <em>Social Cognitive and Affective Neuroscience<\/em> (Denkova et al., 2014).<\/p>\n<p>For example, if you were thinking about a funeral you attended, you might focus on what you were wearing or who was there, instead of how you were feeling at the time.<\/p>\n<p>Professor Florin Dolcos, one of the study&rsquo;s authors, thinks this approach could provide a promising alternative to other ways of regulating the emotions, like suppression and reappraisal.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>To read the full post, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.spring.org.uk\/2014\/04\/a-better-way-to-cope-with-persistent-bad-memories.php\" target=\"_blank\">click here<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>For more on coping, download AIPC&rsquo;s free life effectiveness guides:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.counsellingconnection.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/STRESS-IN-EVERY-DAY-LIFE1.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">Coping with Stress in Everyday Life<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.counsellingconnection.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/COPING-WITH-WORKPLACE-HARASSMENT.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">Coping with Workplace Harassment<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.counsellingconnection.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/COPING-WITH-LONELINESS.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">Coping with Loneliness<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.counsellingconnection.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/COPING-WITH-THE-DEATH-OF-A-LOVED-ONE.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">Coping with The Death of a Loved One<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.counsellingconnection.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/FINANCIAL-STRAIN-AND-PRESSURES.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">Coping with Financial Strain and Pressures<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.counsellingconnection.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/COPING-WITH-SUDDEN-UNEMPLOYMENT.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">Coping with Sudden Unemployment<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.counsellingconnection.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/COPING-WITH-TRANSITIONS-IN-LIFE.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">Coping with Transitions in Life<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.counsellingconnection.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/PARENTING-A-PROBLEM-ADOLESCENT.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">Coping with Parenting a Problem Adolescent<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.counsellingconnection.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/COPING-WITH-PARENTING-STEPCHILDREN.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">Coping with Parenting Step Children<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.counsellingconnection.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/MY-CHILD-BEING-BULLIED.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">Coping with My Child Being Bullied<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.counsellingconnection.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/COPING-WITH-INFIDELITY.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">Coping with Infidelity<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.counsellingconnection.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/RELATIONSHIP-BREAKDOWN.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">Coping with Relationship Breakdown<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.counsellingconnection.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/LOSING-INTIMACY-IN-MY-RELATIONSHIP.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">Coping with Losing Intimacy in my Relationship<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.counsellingconnection.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/08\/COPING-WITH-VIOLENCE.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">Coping with Violence<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dr Jeremy Dean, a psychologist and author of PsyBlog, recently wrote a blog post exploring a new technique that holds promise for those experiencing disturbing emotional flashbacks. 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