Comments on: Making a Decision

By: Popi

Popi — Fri, 18 Jun 2010 00:14:24 +0000

Forgiving does not mean forgetting. Forgiving releases you from holding onto anger and a host of negative feelings. It is what you do with that pain and hurt. If you want to hold on to ‘it’, this may cause you to hold negative emotions in life. I challenge my clients in what they are going to do with this negativeness; are you going to create a new postive self or destroy yourself and hang onto the negatives.
Pesonally when I hang onto the negatives it destroyed all the postivie things in my life…. I decided to change that and now my life has been a turn around… I have moved through the angish of the afair, losing my marriage and being a single parent. It has taken a long time but it can happen.

By: JDaniels

JDaniels — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 17:55:32 +0000

Forgiveness? possibly
Forgetting the pain and hurt and anguish caused?I doubt that will ever happen.
How do you forget that? I can move forward, forgive in a way but not forget. The pain is as real today as it was upon the discovery

By: Rambayi Majuru

Rambayi Majuru — Fri, 02 Oct 2009 08:16:50 +0000

Relationship counselors need this information to save marriages. If this information is given to people who have ended their relationships due to infidelity, they may think twice about it and if time permits, they can end up getting back togather.

By: Pius Motswedi

Pius Motswedi — Fri, 29 Feb 2008 21:09:23 +0000

Interesting information, would love to receive more of your valuable information. I work in a drug rehabilitation centre as a trainee counsellor.